June 20th, 2013

Wore this to a picnic meet-up~
My petti really didn’t want to cooperate that day D:

June 15th, 2013
Not sure why I even bother posting this haha, I look like I haven’t showered or slept in two weeks D8 Was working at a con and having a pretty sucky day e_e Didn’t get any better pic than this…

June 15th, 2013

Not sure why I even bother posting this haha, I look like I haven’t showered or slept in two weeks D8 Was working at a con and having a pretty sucky day e_e Didn’t get any better pic than this…

June 6th, 2013

Excuse the crappy pictures (and my mum’s messy bed) - the vest didn’t really fit me that badly D8 Wore this to a meet-up in Uppsala, the train conductor asked me if this was a national costume..? e_e

June 1st, 2013

OK, here we go: outfits from last year that never got posted~
This outfit was for a meet-up on the International Lolita Day :3

So yeah, I have lots of pics of outfits that I’ve worn the past year or so but never got around to posting. Thinking about trying to post one of them every day, would probably take a couple of weeks. Just gotta get around to editing them all 8D I’ve also mostly taken pics with my phone the last few months, so some of them will be even crappier quality than usual haha OTL Maybe this can motivate me to start taking outfit pics with my camera again though :3

OK so I got these asks ages ago and I’m sorry for not replying sooner, but I feel super awkward spamming my page with answers to compliments. I appreciate all of them a lot, but I’m seriously bad at handling them ;-; So I figured I’d just post these together and give a huge thank you to the five of you together! Again: I really appreciate it <3

OK so I got these asks ages ago and I’m sorry for not replying sooner, but I feel super awkward spamming my page with answers to compliments. I appreciate all of them a lot, but I’m seriously bad at handling them ;-; So I figured I’d just post these together and give a huge thank you to the five of you together! Again: I really appreciate it <3

Instagram?

I got a smartphone for Christmas, and am now active on Instagram~
I’m pumpkinwings on there as well, *link* :3
If you want more frequent updates, follow me there! I guess I’ll keep updating on here occasionally (kinda like I’ve always done, hah) but it seems sooo much easier to socialize on Instagram, and I like that~

Are you guys on Instagram? Leave your nick in an answer here! I’ll definitely take a look at your page :3

Outfit for the Christmas meet-up in Uppsala last month~

Outfit for the Christmas meet-up in Uppsala last month~

Heyo! Your style is very cute and and you seem very confident in what you wear too! See, I'm trying to get started in lolita and it kind of scares me what others would think if I started to wear it. Do you have any advice?(Sorry for the dumb question)

Oh wow, this is like the latest answer ever - I’m so sorry! D8 I don’t even know if you need advice anymore D:

First of all, thank you! :3 My clothes are one of the very few things I’m actually confident about haha OTL Maybe because I don’t care about what people in general think, and the people who actually know the styles I wear have mostly been kind to me. I’m not very good at giving advice; I’m usually not a very confident person myself, I have social anxiety and I absolutely hate attention in real life… But I feel like shit if I don’t get to wear what I want, and I guess at some point I just figured that the choice was between other people having a problem with my clothes, or me having a problem with my clothes. In the end, the latter would had made me more miserable.

I did try to write a good, long answer to this. But really, for me, the above is what it all boils down to. I know it’s not great advice, it’s actually basically just what everyone tells you: screw people, the important thing is that YOU feel good. I know it isn’t that easy in reality ;-; And I also think how to deal with it depends on whose reactions you worry about. Family? Friends? Strangers? You have to find a way to ignore strangers’ opinions, that’s just the harsh reality, but it’s not as easy with people you know and - more importantly - love.

Honestly, I could probably write a book about this, but I really can’t give a short and concise answer. I’ve rewritten this three times, so I’m just gonna press publish now… I’m sorry ;n;

that stache looks hideous. I don't care if you're male wax that shit.
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Haha nope, not gonna happen~ I know it looks stupid sometimes, but I really don’t care XD